Is It Autism or Just a Phase? A Parent’s Guide to Early Signs
Posted by Linzy Moore, M.A. | Embracing Neurodiverse Minds
As a parent, it’s natural to wonder whether your child’s quirks are just a phase or something more. I asked the same question myself when I noticed signs in my toddler: lining up toys, avoiding eye contact, and not responding to their name. That question led me down a path that ultimately gave me clarity, peace, and the ability to support my child with love and confidence.
Early Signs to Be Aware Of
While every child is different, some signs that may warrant an autism evaluation include:
Lack of eye contact or social engagement
Repetitive movements (hand flapping, rocking)
Delayed speech or unusual tone
Intense interest in specific topics or objects
Sensory sensitivities (e.g., covering ears, picky eating)
Why It’s Not Just “A Phase”
While all children develop at their own pace, consistent behaviors that persist or interfere with daily functioning may indicate a neurodevelopmental difference like autism. That’s not a bad thing—it’s just a different way of experiencing the world.
What to Do Next
Trust your instincts as a parent.
Document behaviors and patterns over time.
Talk to a pediatrician or contact a professional trained in neurodivergent assessments.
Early identification can help your child get the support they need, without changing who they are.
You’re Not Alone
It’s not about labeling your child—it’s about understanding them. Once you understand, you can begin to support them in a way that brings more peace, connection, and joy to your home.
Need guidance on what to watch for? Download my free Early Signs Checklist [link to checklist].
